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Why do some women stay in relationships with loser boyfriends?

Dr Oz 30 June 2009 Relationships 29 views 5 Comments

I always find this hard to fathom, why some women come on here bitchin about their boyfriends who are obviously complete losers, yet they continue to stay in the relationship with them.

Is it they are afraid to be alone?
Are they clinging to a little thread of hope that he will change?
Is the saying true, "Love is blind", so blind that they only see the 1% good over the 99% loser?






5 Comments »

  1. no its just the sheer fact that women can find good in anything and anyone.
    they see the light shining and they want to make it brighter.
    hoping that it would happen, but then they do eventually realise which ones are the lost causes.

  2. I also think most women are afraid of being alone. They have relationships with guys just because of the fear to be single.
    And if you are single long time and can’t find the right person … you just go crazy!

    Some people just can not be alone. They need attention.

  3. Hey man
    I totally agree i think the reason is because they don’t want to be alone and have to wait for the next guy. Sometimes there relationship can have good days and bad days so she might think there is a possibility of changing. And to answer your Love is blind question is yes. Hope i helped

  4. All of the above! You have to remember that each women is unique in there experiences, emotions, and life style. To say they all follow a pattern is…well not the best way to go about it. They only true way to get a grip on the situation is take the time understand each situation……Although I have to admit I have heard "Alone" come up a bit much.

  5. Some just feel that they can’t do any better. Or they are blinded by love. I find that they also have very low self esteem.

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